Thursday, February 19, 2009

My Soulmate

What does soulmate means? Your couple or the one who can reach your mind? Probably the latter one. However, some marriages are decided by an impulse, and that's why the divorce rate can't decrease. I've been imaginning my soulmate since I was pretty young because I don't want to make a wrong decision to hurt anyone. My soulmate must be a man who is good at cooking, thoughtful, and humorous.

Eating is such a amazing enjoyment, but cooking is a tiring work. I am good at eating and giving comments on food, however, I am talentless at cooking. So for the sake of my life, I had better found a husband who can cook. A man who is clever at discovering nice restaurants is fine. Hiring a cook is a good idea as well. Though to be honest, eating outside or having a cook beside is not that romantic at all.

I am not considerate and seldom show my feeling directly. So my friends might feel icy from me when I am unhappy or down. At this time, I hope he can comfort me cheer me up. It's impossible for two woods to entwine together. So my soulmate has to be attentive because sometimes I am blunt at others' mind. If my husband were same like me, our family would never be a sweet one. However, it's not fair for him to be the listener every time. I will be inimate to him in return and find out the best way to get along with each others.

Thinking can slow down one's aging, and cultivate one's mind. I want a man who has his own opinion and style, not a person who bends with the wind. We may get different idea on the same thing no matter how serious or slightly the thing is. Humor is the best moderator when we are stiff by the discussion. So besides consideration, humor is also necessary to adjust our relationship.

Into every life, some rain must fall. Into every autumn, some leaves must fall. I won't think too much when the true love is coming. The standard I made is to judge in normal time. What a phrase "love is blind" is! I hope my couple can also be my soulmate.

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